Monday, December 30, 2013

"The Decrying Game": Remember, remember, to date a transgender


The Battle of the Sexes has been raging lately in DUmmieland. The angry DUmmie women (is there any other kind?) have been accusing the men--all men--of being sexist and misogynist and potential rapists. Some of the DUmmie men have dared to defend themselves, but in vain. Political correctness must win out, at all costs.

Well, guess who feels left out? The LSMFT community, i.e., the Lezbo Sodomite Masochist Fag Transangered community. There must be Fifty Shades of Gay, and they all want to have their say. You see, in DUmmieland, to be fair, the Battle of the Sexes must include ALL the sexes. Bisexuals, trisexuals, omnisexuals--EVERYBODY must be entitled to feel oppressed and put upon, to express their outrage, to take great umbrage, and to harrumph in high DUdgeon. We must decry sexism of ALL varieties!

Witness this THREAD, "Is it ignorant/ transphobic for a straight man to not want to date transgender women?"  Short answer:  Yes, unless you straight men are willing to date transgender women, it IS transphobic! And therefore we must decry it! In DUmmieland, we ALWAYS play the Decrying Game! So click the music link and sing along!

THE DECRYING GAME
Tune:  "The Crying Game"

I know all
There is to know
Of the decrying game
I'd like to share
The decrying game


First there are sexists
Then there are slurs
And just you wait
They're basing their hate
On the sex you prefer


Pflag unfurled
I'm gonna tell the world
Of the decrying game
And I'll make sure
That they feel my pain


Why are there haters?
Why are there phobes?
That's who we'll blast
We'll drive them at last
From off of the globe . . .


First there are sexists
Then there are slurs
And just you wait
They're basing their hate
On the sex you prefer


Don't want no phobes
In the decrying game
Don't want no phobes
In the decrying game
Don't want no phobes
In the decrying game
Don't want no phobes
In the decrying game


So let us now go to DUmmieland and observe the Battle of ALL the Sexes, in Rainbow Red, while the commentary of your humble guest correspondent, Charles Henrickson, the wag tailoring the doggerel, is in the [brackets]:

Is it ignorant/ transphobic for a straight man to not want to date transgender women?

[Yes, not only must you WANT to date them, you must actually DU it! DUAC! DUAC!]

a narrative of desire around trans bodies does not exist & in that absence one of degradation and shame is offered in its place. So automatically you have sexualities and accompanying desires shaped in a context of transphobia, which both excludes and pathologizes trans bodies as abhorrent.

[Don't be fearful
Don't be phobic
Date a trans
And be heroic!]

A lot of male sexuality is also constructed around employing hierarchies of womanhood as trophies, to prove their own worth and engage in a process of gendering themselves through access to womens’ bodies. Within that framework, some hold more currency and others (transwomen) can actually subvert heteronormative male sexualities. The opinions and shared norms of sexuality among peers, performed on womens’ bodies, plays a huge part in constructing their sexuality as well. You can imagine where transwomen fall on this scale.

[Some of the transwomen fall on the scale at about 250.]

There’s also the fact that most men dont even have enough literacy of our bodies and our lives to even know who we are and if they are attracted to us. And dont attempt to do so because of cisnormativity.

[Wasn't there a Cisnormal guy who served in the Clinton cabinet?]

With that being said, we live in the world we live in. If a man chooses not to date a transwoman, whatever the reason, that is his choice (though one probably informed by cisnormativity.) I am however concerned with if, in not dating transwomen, he also reinforces cissexism and transphobia in his words and actions.

[And by NOT dating them, he IS reinforcing cissexism! So don't be a cissy, date a sissy!]

Everything is not for everybody nor does it have to be (even though ironically transwomen seem to always get the short end of this stick hmmm.)

[Yes, they always do get the short end of the stick.]

But what are men doing to not actively continue & participate in this cycle of shame around transwomens’ bodies? What are they doing to stop putting our lives at risk? How are they discussing our bodies and lives? In choosing not to date us, are they offering up bioessentialist rhetoric and trying to delegitimize/undermine our genders?

[Remember, remember
To date a transgender
Transexism still must be fought
And don't be transphobing
When they are disrobing
And you see more than you thought]

what are you doing to create & not participate in a society that shames & degrades the concept of desire around transbodies?

[Embrace transbodies! Celebrate transbodies! DU something!!!]

I wont make a blanket statement. . . .

[Whew! I was worried I'd have to get under the blanket with you!]

I wont make a blanket statement and say that ANY man who doesnt date transwomen is transphobic. But. . . .

[. . . I will pretty much do that now anyway . . .]

But I will say that we live in a transphobic and cissexist society. And that most men ARE transphobic and cissexist.

[I plead guilty. Now on to the DUmmies . . .]

This thread has the potential to be very big. . . .

[As big as a hefty transwoman.]

There's no such thing as fairness or equality when it comes to sexuality.

[Then let's pass a law! DEMAND fairness! DEMAND equality! Equal-opportunity dating!]

I don't think we necessarily choose who we are attracted to.

[That's just it! We need somebody to choose FOR us! We're too cissexist! Appoint an attraction czar! Establish date panels!]

If I fell in love with a man who used to be a woman, I don't think it would make me fall out of love. In fact it would certainly have it's advantages as in he'd know what it's like in a woman's world. Julie

[Julie, you are truly a DUmmie without guile. Yes, and you men, think of all the advantages of dating a woman who used to be a man. Think of them. . . . Well, now, somehow I can't think of any. . . .]

That's love for you! it just sneaks up on you from out from nowhere sometimes!

[If I dated a transwoman, I'd be worried about what might sneak up on me.]

While it's not guaranteed to be ignorant or transphobic...it probably is.

[Sexism is default mode for men.]

Love is one area where you have the right to discriminate. . . .

[THAT'S CISSEXIST!]

That's stupid. A man can date whoever he feels like dating. Don't call a young man transphobic because he doesn't want to date someone. . . . What bullsh*t.

[LOUSY TRANSPHOBIC TROLL!!!]

if an individual doesn't want to date "well-endowed" women, does that make him Breastophobic?

[I think the technical term is Aracknophobia.]

It would be ignorant and transphobic for a straight man to rule out the possibility that they could ever find a transgender woman irresistible.

If she's a Republican, no.

[There's the deal-breaker.]

I'm a trans woman and I never had any interest whatsoever in dating men. Is it transphobic for a lesbian to not date a trans woman or is it transphobic for a straight woman or gay man to not date a trans man?

[Did you all follow that? . . . Neither did I.]

17 Comments:

Anonymous The JUDGE said...

God help us, these people are absolutely insane....and their fellow nutjobs are running the country into the ground.

We are BEYOND fucked.

4:02 PM  
Anonymous Servo1969 said...

"A lot of male sexuality is also constructed around employing hierarchies of womanhood as trophies, to prove their own worth and engage in a process of gendering themselves through access to womens’ bodies. Within that framework, some hold more currency and others (transwomen) can actually subvert heteronormative male sexualities. The opinions and shared norms of sexuality among peers, performed on womens’ bodies, plays a huge part in constructing their sexuality as well."

All these words appear to be English and I consider myself a fluent English speaker but... none of these sentences make any sense at all.

4:12 PM  
Anonymous Servo1969 said...

Seriously. It's like a Scientologist discussing how to get 'clear.'

4:14 PM  
Anonymous Foxx said...

Using big and complex words to sound smarter than they really are. It hurts the brain just trying to decipher this bullshit.

9:14 PM  
Anonymous James said...

What are they doing to stop putting our lives at risk?

Supporting concealed carry rights so that you can defend yourselves. The same rights that could have allowed Matthew Shephard to defend himself.

Weren't conservatives supposed to be the people who didn't like gays?

9:28 PM  
Anonymous troglaman said...

Why are you folks even paying attention to transgenders, gays, etc. Really. What's the frigging problem? Why are you manly-men so worried about it? It's like you think they're coming to cut off your balls or something. They don't want to cut them off. Why? Because they LIKE your balls. Life without balls would be bad for everyone.

But no. They'll be teaching it in classmrooms. It's a gateway to beastiality and child rape. What's to stop a Sherpa from marrying his prized goat, blah blah. Soooo scary.

Thing is...it makes you look like bigger pussies than THEY are. Hard to do but you all have managed...somehow. An amazing feat. Truly.

1:54 AM  
Anonymous troglaman said...

"Weren't conservatives supposed to be the people who didn't like gays?" James the Dingleberry

Yes! They are the people who don't like gays. But they really like guns.

Are you saying that if Mathew Shepard had been packing and mowed down his attackers...fuck it. I can't understand what you're saying. Supporting gun rights supports gays? Is that it?

My inner homo thinks you're full of shit.

2:41 AM  
Anonymous Jerome Goolsby said...

Foxx said...

Using big and complex words to sound smarter than they really are. It hurts the brain just trying to decipher this bullshit.


I know a guy (Don Rice aka Don The Racist Moron) who does that very thing. He's dumber than Troglaman The Guttersnipe and that's no small accomplishment.

3:53 AM  
Anonymous krazy kat said...

Yes troglaman, we have kept our balls while you have lost your mind.

So now you have balls without a mind to guide them and that's a green light for your inner homo to run wild. We're all looking forward to seeing the action on AMC.

Pass the popcorn.

3:45 PM  
Anonymous krazy kat said...

Aaron Rodgers is gay! It's true!
Perez Hilton says so.

Will troggy's inner homo take up with the Green Bay QB?

4:48 PM  
Anonymous troglaman said...

What the fuck are you talking about, kat? You're drunker than I am. And I've put down three fifths of Jack, 14 quaaludes, 9 tabs of orange sunshine, and done a about a quarter once of blow. And I STILL make more sense than you do.

Never the less, you all hate the gays, transgenders, lesbos, etc. It freaks you out. I, troglaman, didn't bring it up, you stupid shits. PJinc did. And James said that convservatives really do love the gays because if Mathew Shepard had a gun, he could have protected himself and everything would be just fine.

Who killed Mathew Shepard, anyway? Who would've he had to shoot.?

One of you. That's who. Such irony.

I know. I know. I'm so fucked up I
couldn't make sense if my life depended on it. Unfortunately, it's you that doesn't make sense. You simply don't. Even to a drug-addled old hippie like me.

5:03 AM  
Anonymous krazy kat said...

"I'm so fucked up I couldn't make sense if my life depended on it...a drug-addled old hippie like me."

Couldn't say it better myself.

But your "inner homo" is your invention, not ours. You've been dragging him out of your mental closet for years; so don't say you've never brought the gay issue up. Hell, you rattle it like maracas.

BTW. Aaron Rodgers says he's not gay. There are broken hearts all over San Francisco.

Gonna be a hot time in Lambeau Field Sunday.

3:36 PM  
Anonymous The ULTIMATE Man said...

troglafuck whined...

....I've put down three fifths of Jack, 14 quaaludes, 9 tabs of orange sunshine, and done a about a quarter once of blow. And I STILL make more sense than you do.


BULLSHIT. You NEVER make sense you stupid lying fucked up racist fuckwad.

12:40 AM  
Anonymous troglaman said...

"Gonna be a hot time in Lambeau Field Sunday." kat

A wind chill approaching -51 degrees. Same thing in Philly. Cold. I think the Eagles win that game, btw.

Weather is a factor...maybe even New York in the end. This'll be fun to watch. Can't wait for the Green Bay game tomorrow.

(this said knowing the Seahawks will shred whatever comes their way a week from now...but it'd be nice if the Niners got their ass kicked by Mother Nature)

You support gay marriage, kat?

1:27 AM  
Anonymous krazy kat said...

"You support gay marriage kat?"


I support gay marriage in the old meaning of the word "gay".

9:32 PM  
Anonymous troglaman said...

Gay meaning happy, fun. Well then, you support gay marriage.

11:04 PM  
Blogger Ramzan Ali said...

I liked the world creating as well. It makes the story really interesting. Although this dating games are with three bachelors, to be honest, I think it's obvious she will end up with Mal. I would be beyond surprised if she completed up with Nikolai.

2:45 AM  

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